Writing from a gray-collar perspective where ministry & concrete construction converge
Saturday, December 21, 2019
What should we make of Christianity Today Magazine Calling for Trump's removal?
This morning I unfollowed the Twitter account of Christianity Today.
The reason? Their piece on removing Trump was nothing less than hypocritical on their part: https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2019/december-web-only/trump-should-be-removed-from-office.html
Why do I think CT magazine is hypocritical and a bit insincere in their proposition that Trump needs to step down? Even if they are right about Trump's presidency being compromised, the magazine has reached a new, low level of hypocrisy.
Time and again the CT piece points to the moral problems they see with Trump. Why are they suddenly the moral police for politicians, and why have they remained silent in regards to so many other politicians, especially the previous administration?
I cannot recall the magazine ever recommending the Obama administration remove themselves. For example: #1, Joe Biden under the Obama administration certainly went further than Trump ever did with the Ukrainians in Biden's threats to withhold American dollars unless Biden got his way: https://www.wsj.com/video/opinion-joe-biden-forced-ukraine-to-fire-prosecutor-for-aid-money/C1C51BB8-3988-4070-869F-CAD3CA0E81D8.html
#2, Have we ever had a more pro-LGBT, pro-Abortion, pro-Planned Parenthood president than Obama? If Trump's character/morals disqualifies him from office, what about the stances Obama took?
I do not like a lot of what Trump's past holds. Yet, since taking office, he has done quite a bit for Christianity and people of faith. I cannot say how sincere he is in his faith or what his position with God is, that's not for me to judge. I also do not feel I need to defend Trump. That's not what this is about. This is about a "Christian" magazine that is not about politics but is supposedly about faith, misspeaking in complete error (Technically Trump is not impeached until the House delivers the articles of impeachment to the Senate, which they so far have not delivered) and hypocrisy.
CT magazine has the right to whatever stance they think is correct, but for me, I think they have lost their way. My guess is they are attempting to be hip and relevant, and perhaps reach a new audience to boost their sales? I'm no longer interested in their perspectives, and I'd say they will lose more of whatever influence they had due to this blunder of theirs.
Friday, December 13, 2019
How can we better support grieving people
I’m amazed at the dumb things that can come out of our well-intentioned mouths. We shouldn’t feel like we have to have the perfect explanation or the just-perfect words to comfort people who are agonizing over a death, loss, or tragedy. When anyone, for example, suffers the loss of a loved one we feel a bit anxious and we try our best to comfort them. Unintentionally, we often say things that are either callous or that possibly makes matters worse.
Yes, people who experience the loss of a loved one want to make sense of their suffering and they wonder how long their pain will last. But, they really don’t expect you to explain away or solve their problem.
People who grieve do not need to ever hear, “God needed another Angel,” “They’re in a better place now/they aren’t suffering anymore,” “Everything happens for a reason,” “God never puts more on you than you can handle,” or maybe the worst phrase we can offer, “I know exactly how you feel.” Instead, what they really need, most often, is a gentle hug and a listening ear.
Those in the midst of suffering aren’t expecting you to solve their problems or provide answers to the hard questions. Sometimes they simply need to know you are praying for them and you are there for them.
My dad passed away last week and I’m still getting a lot of support from our church, friends, and family. When my mom recently passed away in September, I received comforting calls and cards and messages from people far and wide. One of the kindest gestures that truly touched me was a card informing me that Jeff Fleming sponsored a tree for the Keep Kingsport Beautiful Tree Fund in honor of my mom -- it sent an emotional message that resonates deep within my soul to this day. My mother would’ve appreciated Jeff’s kind act and it meant a lot to me too. Any act of kindness and support goes much further than some of the silly phrases we fumble through when we don’t know what to say.
Being present for someone while they are hurting, offering your help through small acts of kindness, listening to them or simply sitting silently and crying together without trying to fix the situation is more powerful and convincing than sharing a silly canned speech about pain and suffering. Again, save your pearls of wisdom for another time because a warm hug and a listening ear will do them more good than our words ever will.
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