We live in strange times. Though I imagine every generation thinks theirs is special, ours seems unique. With all that’s going on these days, what could be missing?
Not long ago scientists discovered a tiny lizard, a chameleon, the size of an ant. I can now browse the internet and “cast” a movie from my phone straight to my television, without using any wires. Certain laws protect the speech of hate-mongers, but as we recently observed, instead of confronting racism our culture politicizes it without really improving the situation. Meanwhile, across the pacific ocean there’s a dictator ruling a slim peninsula of land who is threatening our nation with nuclear destruction, but no one here seems to have a good way to handle him. And earlier this week, millions of “eclipse tourists” traveled to watch the sun disappear in the middle of the day while a handful of others predicted these astronomical events were ushering in the Apocalypse.
What’s going on? With all of our advances and discoveries, life should be improving both in quality and satisfaction -- instead it seems like while we have more opportunities, we express less optimism. We have so much potential, yet we seem fearful of the future.
Perhaps too many people are living for “today” with no thought for tomorrow. We live in the present, which in a sense is healthy, but being obsessed with the present isn’t. Lately, we’ve attempted to rewrite our history in many circles while we’ve forgotten about our future in others.
With all of the uncertainty that accompanies our global turmoil and the craziness that captures our nation as well, how are we supposed to move forward and keep our heads on straight? It comes down to perspective. It rests in being firmly rooted. It depends on being anchored to something solid.
I know you’re expecting me to say something about how we sharpen and perfect our perspective by focusing more on God. While that’s true, the context in which God most often nurtures our lives is through family. It’s not impossible, but it can be harder to stay devoted to God when we are disconnected from our families.
Spiritually speaking, there seems to be a symbiotic relationship between how we understand/experience God and how we function as a family. Honor your father and mother is in the same paragraph as don’t take the Lord’s name in vain. God never said He hated divorced people, but He said He hated divorce because of its negative impact on the spiritual development of children (see Malachi 2:13-16).
Without being too simplistic, our fractured family structure is probably to blame for many if not most of our current woes. Our culture experiences too much crime and when we’re not dealing with crime, it struggles with welfare concerns; these are easily traced to a breakdown in the home.
There’s probably nothing more detrimental to our development than an absentee-father. We can’t blame this poor estate of the modern family on a lack of education, we have more access to learning than at any other time in human history. So is the church to blame?
We are, by and large, products of our families. Family can be messy, they can embarrass us, they can drain us, and they can wound us like no one else can. Family also can be one of the greatest blessings this life has to offer.
When was the last time you went to a family reunion? When was the last time you enjoyed any inter-generational activity with family? A meal with family members of different ages, or even a game night? Family reminds us of where we have come from, what’s truly important today, and why our future is so special it deserves to be protected.
Does this mean that if I have the perfect family, my life will be perfect? No. But common sense tells us when we are more secure in our home we are more confident out in the world around us. Perhaps, the best gift you can give your children might not be a good college education or a new car, it just might be the example you set for them on how you treat each other.
If you have a healthy family, thank the good Lord above regularly and take some time to share your love and experience with those less fortunate. If your family isn’t all it could be, pray for your family and purposefully spend more time with godly families who can help yours grow. Families only thrive when family is a priority.