Saturday, September 19, 2026

Being in...

 


You've heard it said when people are successful or just plain lucky, they happened to be in the right place at the right time, and conversely when we are unlucky, what do they say?  They say, we were in the wrong place at the wrong time.  Is this a valid way to look at life, or is it a victimhood mentality/excuse?   

Take for example your DNA or genetics, they are all completely out of your control.  Just like the family you were born into or the grade school you attended.  Today, the career you are in or the neighborhood you now live in, did you choose any of them or were they thrust upon you against your will?  Do you really have free will and what good is it when so much of this life seems to be directed by forces outside of our wishes?  

The question pounding us like 20 Ton Hammer is: How can we find satisfaction, meaning, or even purpose when we feel so powerless?  Are you looking for a mature response to this?  Here's what I think.  What we really struggle with is the reality that while we might not be in control of much of our life, we are still responsible for our choices & behaviors, and in some way we pay for or are rewarded by our actions & attitudes.    


I recommend we do the best we can, put forth the effort, try to enjoy each sunrise/sunset, new birth and each passing, and simple meals together with loved ones all the while recognizing that this life feels meaningless most of the time, but it is a life that is temporary and eternity is not far off for all of us.   

As you wrestle with "being in control and being responsible" as you are being in the moment, I'll leave you with this, consider Solomon's advice and his reflection on all of this in Eccl 9, "9 Enjoy life with the wife whom you love, all the days of your vain life that he has given you under the sun, because that is your portion in life and in your toil at which you toil under the sun. 10 Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might, for there is no work or thought or knowledge or wisdom in Sheol, to which you are going. 11 Again I saw that under the sun the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, nor bread to the wise, nor riches to the intelligent, nor favor to those with knowledge, but time and chance happen to them all. 12 For man does not know his time. Like fish that are taken in an evil net, and like birds that are caught in a snare, so the children of man are snared at an evil time, when it suddenly falls upon them. "


Friday, September 11, 2026

Have we ignored the lessons of 9/11?


 At 8:46 that morning an “airline accident” was soon discovered for what it was, a sinister & intentional act.  Tragically, “Never forget” quickly became a cliche and we soon forgot -- not where we were at that morning (like with JFK or the Challenger Spaceshuttle, who could?), not the brave first responders rushing towards danger or hoisting the Stars and Stripes, not the grotesque image seared into our psyche of the doomed people hopelessly bailing out of their windows “escaping” from the flames which were leaping and billowing like an inferno, or the dense dust clouds enveloping and draping the mangled towers like a death shroud, nor even the thousands of lives violently lost to the destruction or its gruesome carnage.  We’ve memorized all that we had memorialized but sadly we’ve forgotten about our cohesion afterwards, senselessly we have ignored the lessons of 9/11 over the last twenty-five years.


Instead of needing to sound profound in the days immediately following 9/11/2001, we valued being solemn and we cherished our collective consciousness/solidarity.  Maybe I’m being naive or nostalgic, but am I wrong to think that for a few days together as a community we held tightly to a piece of the peace of Christ or that we believed together that love triumphs over hatred and evil?  The idea that God can bring about blessings in the midst of pain and suffering is a difficult concept to grasp, though it is true, for example when Joseph was sold into slavery, afterwards he recognized how God used an extremely evil situation for good in Gen 50:20, “As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today...” 


No sniveling over petty grudges and in an absence of cynicism we were optimistic that united, we would stand. And after the smokey haze of our country’s crisis cleared, none of us needed to be told to be kind, to forgive, to be loving, to overlook our differences, or simply to get along with each other.  The shadows of the wreckage illuminated our hearts and we didn’t feel the need to nitpick what translation of the Bible other people chose to read; there were no denominational or doctrinal differences that mattered, those all disappeared, if only for a few days no one was a Papist, Presbyterian, or Pentecostal, we were just Christians.  We didn’t see each other as liberals or conservatives, we saw each other as fellow citizens struggling to find stability; political parties and partisanship agendas were put aside, people were prioritized and we were all patriots, however briefly that period persisted.  


We’re no longer immobilized by fear these days, but we walk with a limp now.  More TSA, stricter passport laws, and other inconveniences became the norm and soon we went back to our backbiting and bickering as a people, or worse.  Today, the tragedy is that culturally we are estranged from each other, after a quarter of a century of being entangled in multiple Middle Eastern quagmires, accumulating trillions in debt, and the grim reality of the irreplaceable loss of life both of our military and civilians, instead of being transformed we are tethered to our smartphones and lost in the cloud of an ever increasing ever present AI.  We blabber ceaselessly about the benefits of self-driving cars while we remain tight lipped about the blessings of self-control -- we’ve misunderstood that access to all of the information available on the internet will never make us wiser, connected, or more considerate.  


It would be silly to say that the days after 9/11 were idyllic or to romanticize the days following that tragedy, yet.  We need community, not controversy; we have more in common than we differ on, we have more to celebrate together than to separate over.  Why we crave controversy, conflict, and competition over community confuses me, but we are immersed in our polarization and we are poorer in spirit for it, so instead, to honor those who died on 9/11 we who live on should resist the lure of resentment, reject the temptation to hate those we disagree with, and embrace the idea that we need love more than we need to be right, consider 1st John 4:20-21, “[20] If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. [21] And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother.”


I wish I could persuade all people to embrace unity or provide a solution to our fragmentation, I suppose all I can offer here is the suggestion that we reflect for a moment today on that brief period of time after 9/11 where we shared a flicker of hope that we could as a people experience true brotherhood and genuine fellowship, even in the midst of our differences.  Somewhere in the Good Book it says something about loving your enemies and praying for those who persecute you; there’s enough blame to go around on both sides of our divide, but I’m probably not the only one who is discouraged by everyone endlessly arguing about elections, vaccines, virtue signaling, and pronouns etc... Is this the best we can do, is this really the best version of “us” that we have to offer?  I think I am finally understanding why the early church would groan, “Maranatha!”



Wednesday, September 2, 2026

Why we like working concrete with Mexicans

 

It may sound strange to hear, but we like working with our Hispanic contractors, a lot.  Sometimes I feel like we prefer working with our Mexican concrete finishers more than anyone else.  Before we get too far here, if you are looking for a woke-political post on immigration, keep on trolling, I mean scrolling.  I am patriotic and I love America.  I am for firm borders because unforced borders create chaos.  And, most of our Mexicans colleagues, the ones I work with who are legal citizens feel strongly that citizenship is important too.  They agree with requiring citizenship for immigrants and they talk poorly of the folks who are here illegally.

The vast majority of the Mexican Concrete tradesmen that we Pump Concrete for are honest, hard-working people. To the false accusation that “they” are stealing work from Americans, that is inaccurate to say the least.  They are not afraid of hard work, they are eager to be employed, and they are willing to take on difficult work that many other people shy away from.  Many Americans are neglecting hard work, and our Mexican brothers are filling this gap quite well.

So why is it that I really enjoy working with the Mexican Concrete finishers, what is it about their attitude and their behaviors that makes this so? They are good hearted people, they don’t take our country’s blessings for granted.   Overall our Mexican customers are a joy to work with, they are in a nutshell: Polite, Professional, patient, optimistic, cooperative, family centered, appreciative, respectful, humble, conscientious, easy to work with and friendly.  Concrete and concrete pumping is challenging enough, a good attitude goes a long way in this industry and there is no room for prejudice out here on the job site.